So I made a promise to my daughter (well and to her older brother
too) before she was born that I would never take a video or picture of
them that I wouldn't want to see repeated as a teenager. Basically NO
NAKED BABY PICTURES. You can call me a prude, or whatever else you can
come up with, but I have my reasons.
Why would I take a
pass on such cute pictures you might ask? Well I believe in this thing
called modesty. I believe kids are growing up too fast and being
exposed to things way too early. That being said, I do not see the
point of pictures of naked (or diaper only) babies. I have found that
fully clothed, my kid is still pretty stinking cute (and warmer).
I
am enjoying dressing my child up in ridiculous outfits and taking her
picture. I figure these photos are a good substitute for the
embarrassing naked baby pictures. I mean, for heaven's sake, I put her
in my Christmas stocking, took her picture, then sent it out to all of
our families with the caption "Our little stocking stuffer." If she
isn't completely embarrassed by that when she's 15, I don't know what
else I could have done to make it worse. :D
That being
said, when she is 15 or older or younger, and comes to me trying to
wear some ridiculous outfit that is not modest or posing stupidly in a
picture (we pray neither happens, but just in case), we can pull out the
baby photos and say, "Look, we gave you the gift of preserved modesty.
It is your job to take that gift and foster it." Then I will just let
her dad ground her until he feels she has learned her lesson and is
willing to dress and act appropriately.
What a great perspective! The gift of preserved modesty - awesome Heather!
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